Self denial and a Fulfilled Life

By Carole

Self-denial is commonly misrepresented as not enjoying any physical pleasure. But the Lord has recently shown me that this isn't it at all. Self-denial does mean that we can only eat foods that don't taste good, or avoid nice walks on the beach. It means that the enjoyment of a physical pleasure but rather the means to glorify God. If I eat a delicious meal, I should not look to the meal as the source of pleasure, but to the God who made the food and my taste buds.

Author and apologist, Ravi Zacharias, made an interesting point in this regard. He mentions that there are legitimate pleasures and illegitimate pleasures. The latter are obvious, sinful deeds that the Lord works out of us (best described as things that we could not possibly do to the glory of God). But there are many legitimate pleasures that can quickly become illegitimate. Ravi Zacharias uses the example of King David who desired a drink of water from his well. Three of his men sneak to get him the water, and he refuses to drink it. He instead pours it out before the Lord. (2 Samuel 23:16). Why doesn't he drink it? The desire for water obviously isn't wrong, but the fact that it put his men in danger, and they needed to finish fighting the battle.

Like David, we need to evaluate our desires and allow the Holy Spirit to decide if it needs to be poured out before the Lord, or if we can glorify the Lord through it. Remember that God created our minds, bodies, and emotions. He gave us the ability to taste and see and feel in our bodies, the ability to appreciate and enjoy and think in our minds.

How Shall We Then Live?

By Carole

"Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it." Matt 7:14

Christ calls us to life, true life. But, as He says in Matt 7:14 "there are few who find it." If Christ wants us to have life, why are there so few who find it? Doesn't everyone want "abundant life"? Yes, of course. But as the Lord is breaking me this week, I'm finding that this life is in Spirit, not in flesh. As I am in so much pain physically, I am closer to Him than I was before. I have the life in my Spirit, as my flesh is weak. Even as a Christian, I can easily slip onto the broad path. We enter in through the narrow door, then live comfortable lives of ease and prosperity, never stepping out or confronting our deepest fears. We then do not live the life He has called us to.

So, as Francis Schaeffer asked, "How should we then live?"

Christ tells us exactly in the beatitudes: (my study bible offers a great insight to each characteristic that I have included)

Poor in Spirit- humility, stripped of pride and sensitive to God's Spirit

Mournful- responsive to personal sinfulness and tender-hearted toward one another

Meek- strength under control, confidence in God rather than in self

Hunger and thirst for righteousness- yearning for God and His word

Merciful- compassion, quick to forgive and considerate of others' needs

Pure in heart- Holiness, set-apart

Peacemaker- forbearance instead of retaliation

Persecuted for righteousness sake- steadfast loyalty to God that cannot be broken

Reviled by others- willingness to endure suffering, not in bondage to the fear of man

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The Purpose of Pain and Suffering

By Carole

I have a severe knee problem - dislocating knee cap- that was made worse after labor and delivery. Running around my home after a toddler, and caring for a newborn has it's own challenges. But now I have a lot of pain, and I can't walk normally. This caused me to cry out for God's strength, and led me to the following question:

Why does God use pain and suffering?

It easy to say that God has a purpose in pain and suffering, especially when you're not in pain. I always believed this- and I still do- but now in the midst of the struggle, I find myself asking why. Why does use pain and suffering? Why can't he use the comfortable easy path? The Lord is showing me that it's because of the war against our flesh.

God loved Jacob, so He wrestled with him and broke him. God loved the Israelites, so He made them wander in the dessert. God loved Paul, so He blinded Him on the road to Damascus. God loved the world, so He sent His Son to suffer and die and take our punishment, the atoning sacrifice- as it is written, "Although He was a Son, He learned obedience through what He suffered..." (Heb 5:8)

Suffering is the tool the Lord uses on earth to bring us to Himself, and to make us more and more like Him. Our flesh is still sinful, so it must be conquered. More and more I'm seeing how blessed I am when I'm weak, because His strength is so much stronger than mine.

Consider the following verses:

"Woe to you who are rich , for you have received your consolation." (Luke 6:24)
"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." (Matt 5:3)

"Woe to you who are full now, for you shall be hungry." (Luke 6:25)
"Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied." (Matt 5:6)

"Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep." (Luke 6:25)
"Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh." (Luke 6:21)

May the Lord continue to break us, working in us the fellowship of His suffering, that we may be conformed to His beautiful image.

A New Start

Sorry for not posting for so long. I just gave birth to my second child, Naomi Zyana on August 13. My oldest is seventeen months, so I'm pretty busy:) Children are such precious blessings from God, and I'm seeing how he's using them both to sanctify me more and more each day, making me more like Him. I'm learning a lot about patience and realizing how much God's word and Spirit are sufficient for my daily walk.

A few words of encouragement that helped me today-

The way is narrow (Matthew 7) which means there is only one way to walk it- seeking Him daily, hourly, moment by moment. There are many ways of the path, leaning to our own understanding. But if we stay on the narrow path, we will find rest. In Him is life and peace.

Veggie Tales "Dave and the Giant Pickle" was another unexpected source of encouragement :) Bob the Tomato shares that with God all things are possible, meaning whatever God wants you to do, you can do. Simple wisdom for children taught me profoundly that I can rely on Him to give me the ability to be a Godly wife and mother.

I hope this was encouraging to you -

In Christ,
Carole